When you lose someone

When you lose someone
It seems the time's standing still
You cannot comprehend
Questions come to mind
How?
When?
Why?
You don't know what to do
Or what to say
Words can't heal the wounds
They can only make the pain a little less
While the wounds are healing

Thoughts may cross your mind
Was it..?
Could it have been..?
my fault?

NO.
Remember when someone dies
Takes his life
It's not your fault
You did what you had to do
What you thought was right.

He didn't see a way out
He thought he was better off
someplace else
in an other dimension

And maybe he is.
He has come to peace with himself.

You don't have to forget him.
Not at all.
But come to peace with it.
Time can't heal the wounds
But it can soothen the pain.
Never think it was your fault.
Don't feel guilty.

Let time make your pain fade away
Remember him
The way he was
The person you loved so much
Come to peace
and try to get your life back together.

Nobody will blame you
when you show your emotions.
Don't be afraid
to show your emotions.
It is normal
to show your emotions
when you lose someone.